Anak rosak gigi! tapi die x mkn coklat!

Salam!

fuhh sudah lama x buat entri di sini, habis bersawang rasenye blog ni, laptop demam beberapa bulan dan hanya excess internet gune fon.. dah terbiasa update blog gune PC rase cm x sedap je gune iphone tu kan huhu..

Anak sulong saye Nur Ameenah baru saje menjalani surgery utk giginya yg berkaries..

tengok tu mulutnye x nmpak dah 4 btg gigi depan, sbb sume dah jd tunggul, nak sebut "style" jadi "shail".. hehe

 Giginya bukan setakat berkaries tapi abses, abses tu nanah pada akar gigi, kalau tgk gambar di bawah yg saye dpt dr google tu, nmpak tak ade benjolan dekat gusi sebelah kiri? betol2 atas gigi yg berkaries tu.. itulah abses (nanah)

picture by google

klu ikut pada pembacaan saye tntg abses ni, dia timbul sbb jangkitan bakteria, jangkitan bakteria tu pun muncul sbb gigi yg berkaries tu, gigi yg dah reput dan tiada enamel untuk lindung gigi, bila lama gunekan gigi utk aktiviti mkn bakteria pun mula masuk ke dlm gigi.. mcm tula lebih kurang nye huhu

klu tanye anak saye sakit tak gigi tu? die jawab x sakit pun.. malah die boleh makan nasi cm biasa tanpa ade rase ketidakselesaan despite the abses..

sbb kerisauan tkt anak xde gigi dpn meningkat dewasa due to rosak akar gigi ke (paranoid mother k lps google nanah kat gusi tu) saya dan suami pun mulalah visit doktor gigi.. b4 that saye dah prepared mentally! sbb confirm mesti die ckp anak saye kuat mkn coklat! sesuatu yg paling menipu dan tidak benar sepanjang proses tumbuh gigi sampai rosak gigi..

klah tapi mesti ade reason kan kenapa gigi die rosak.. gigi die rosak sbb salah saye x ajar die berus gigi dgn betullbh awal! klah i admit la my mistake!

1st child kan mmg inexperienced! even anak x pernah mkn coklat cmne pun, mimum susu ibu sepenuhnya, mkn pemakanan yg seimbang..

• breakfast: bubur nasi
• in between lunch: snack mcm biskut cheese crackers ke, steamed carrot, mashed potatoes etc
• lunch mkn nasi lauk ummi ayahnye
• in between dinner biskut 4 segi celup teh/milo
• dinner mkn nasi
• lepastu breasfeeding on demand! ummi cm watercooler, sat2 mnm pastu sambung main..

manis mmg x sentuh langsung k.. no added sugar..
tapi..
tiap kali ajak die berus gigi mmg saye akan angkat white flag!
die mmg x suke la!
siap sembunyikan berus gigi k!

waktu tu kami duduk pedalaman sarawak, bilik mandi xde bumbung, jadi klu lame2 berada dlm bilik air akan berasa sejuk!. hutan nipah blkang rumah je.. angin sepoi2 bahasa.. tu buat x kuasa nk pujuk lame2, xmau sudah jom masuk rumah! stgi selsema kn susah, dahlah ummi ade history asthma, tak pasal2 anak kecil ni inherited kn pulak..

so once upon a time xtau cmne tibe-tibe timbul geram dlm hati "x boleh kene berus jugak ni", saye pun berus la.. die meronta2, lepastu terus menjerit kuat! saye pun takut! kumur2 mulut, masuk rumah tgk2 gigi depan die ade "engraved marks" ish kuat sgt ke tekanan yg diberikan sewaktu menggosok gigi die? after that x gosok la gigi die lagi lap dgn napkin je.. nyesal oi!

soon after that dua2 tu reput bits by bits pastu berjangkit 2 gigi sebelah, pastu gigi taring n gigi geraham die sume n tibe2 ade abses.. fuhh pnjng ceritanya.. dr sarawak sampai balik KL (setahun tu..)

sewaktu di klinik gigi tu (di lmbh klang), staf nurse tu pun tampal gigi2 yg berlubang manually korek2 lubang2 tu.. alhamdulillah b4 pergi klinik berminggu-minggu dah brainwashed ameenah, i talked to her slowly dan bila sampai masanya die dapat beri kerjasama! she did so well! i gave her a kiss!

the doctor advise gigi yg karies kene cabut sbb dah terbuka kpd jangkitan bakteria.. klinik xboleh nak cabut, refer tu pakar bcoz gigi rosak lebih dari 2 batang (which is 4) sumore gigi2nye tinggal tunggul surgeri la jwpnnye!

surprisingly lepas ameenah tampal gigi2 yg berlubang, gigi die stop rosak..x berjangkit2 ke gigi lain pulak tapi waktu ni mmg ameenah dah change lifestyle die, berus gigi 2 kali sehari, wajib sblm tdo never missed! hehe happy sgt bile berjaya ubah perspektifnya tntg berus gigi..

tell me! berus gigi cantik dan ubat gigi ade flavour tu belum cukup utk umpan minat die memberus gigi k.. byk yg dilakukan hehe will share soon insyAllah.

Ameenah pun dah selamat undergo surgeri, bius satu bdn, sedih sgt tgk mulutnye berdarah2, sedih lagi tgk katil sblh ameenah yg buat dental surgery juga tapi 17 batang gigi!! bygkan! umur baru 4 thn, kes same cm ameenah! menangis2 klu disuruh berus gigi sampai terlentang atas lantai toilet kata ibunya huhu (i feel u puan!)

so anda yg mempunyai anak2 yg ade masalah gigi segerala jumpe doktor gigi! karang kene cabut 17 batang, jenuh nak tunggu tumbuh gigi dewasa bermula average 7 tahun (darjah 1) sedih kan cmne die nk mkn!

anak saye umur 3 tahun, bermakna lagi 4 tahun la nk menunggu kemunculan 4 batang gigi depan yg baru dicabutnye huhu.. i'm sorry ameenah..

hopes this entri helps parents out there!

till then..

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Saturday entry lycra

Assalamualaikum!!!

Bermulalah hari cuti (sabtu), ada idea nak buat aktiviti ape ye dgn anak2? huhu gaji blom masuk, nak pi berjalan sakan tak syiok pulak.. sebab.. sebab ummi ni kuat makan!! kalau dah jalan2 makan pun kene la special2 sikit kan? aiskrim sikit ke.. ikan steam sikit ke hehe

Cari lah aktiviti luar bersama anak yang bajet sikit.. hmm picnik?? bawa bekal sendiri, main2 bola mandi2 happy pastu balik.. ok tak? hehe ada idea ke pembaca luar sana??

gambar new born nur Muhammad wif xcited Nur Ameenah

Telekung Lycra akan siap diberi kepada pelanggan di bandar sri Damansara, terima kasih atas sumbangan anda!! ok kite take a peek sikit warna

warna Toffee.. warna dalam gambar terang sikit due to light ing

Ahah!! ape tunggu lagi?? bagi mereka yang meminati warna gelap.. kami ada warna hitam, lavender, mocha, burgundy dan bermacam2 lagi sila lihat previous entry! Dalam kategori dark colours ni ramai yang meminati warna hitam!! hehe black is beauty!! and black is the winner for this category!!

Ok sehingga bertemu lagi!! kilk2 nuffnang ads!!

Colour your wonderful life!

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..

Mulakanlah hidup kita dan perbuatan kita dengan nama Allah SWT.. Pasti bagi yang bekerja keluar rumah di pagi hari dengan penuh bersemangat untuk menjalankan ibadah seharian sebagai seorang hamba Allah selain daripada mencari rezeki untuk menyara hidup.

Ummi sangat ceria pada hari ini, banyak aktiviti dapat diluangkan bersama anak2. Nur Muhammad dah mula minat dengan buku semenjak melihat kakaknya suka membelek buku alhamdulillah..

Hari ini ummi ada terbaca tentang aura personaliti warna, warna baju apa yang kita pakai pada hari ini, ia boleh mempengaruhi personaliti kita.. menarik tak? tapi ummi tak pastilah sejauh mana kajian ini.. samada betul atau tidak wallau'alam :)

yang pastinya jom kita layan aura warna telekung Lycra pula!!! hehe ZOOM IN!!

These are some of the most popular colours!! more colous to come slowly and steadily..oops ada juga warna purple yang kami panggil lavender.. boleh lihat gambar di previous entry.

Ok nak tunjukkan gambar yang ada sikit perincian pula hehe

putih nila ni sama je dgn white cuma kita nak beritahu warna putih ni die nak dekat2 warna biru  (seolah-olah seperti dinila)

Untuk order atau pertanyaan lanjut boleh terus comment, message di fb atau email k.. wassalam

p/s: klik2 nuffnang ads :)

Lycra Prayer Veils

Salam readers!

Alhamdulillah! tak sangka from my previous post about telekung lycra ramai juga yang bertanya dan book :)
Ramai juga peminat pink! xpe2 salah satu warna kegemaran Rasulullah SAW yang dirindui, ini berdasarkan makna sebuah hadis yang belum lagi saya check matan bahasa arab nya lagi.. iaitu

Dari mahmud bin Ghailan dari Abdul Razaq dari Sufian al-Sauri dari 'Auni Ibnu Abi Juhairah dari bapanya, kata bapanya : " Aku melihat nabi s.a.w memakai pakaian berwarna merah ( merah hati ), warnanya memancar bagaikan cahaya dari celah kedua betisnya 

( kerana indah dan berseri )" - ( Riwayat bukhari ).

Menyukai sesuatu kerana Rasulullah SAW suke samelah seperti mengikut sunnahnya :) neh?

Selain warna merah hati (pink), Rasulullah SAW juga suke dengan warna putih, hitam, hijau dan abu-abu :)

Jom kite update colour-colour yang ade lagi!

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RM160 including postage to Sabah and Sarawak

price for Singapore and other foreign country, 
do inquire me here, email or facebook!

Ada yang duduk di Bandar Sri Damansara?

Jom! Bermaah di Masjid al-Mukarramah!!

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New Town! Shopping telekung!

Salam semua!!

Susah juga nak update selalu blog sambil menjaga 2 anak yang membesar ni serta internet sat ada sat xde! huhu

Sungguh teruja kepada mereka yang boleh commit dan bekerja keras!

Skrg ni kami di sri damansara!! wuuhuu! Jom berjemaah di Masjid Al-Mukarramah, Bandar Sri Damansara! (which was known as Masjid Al-Muttaqin.)

Mood sgt HAPPY!! ada telekung baru!!!

jatuh hati pada pandangan pertama melihat kakak ipar memakainya!! Telekung kain lycra Korea berkualiti tinggi! 1st in my collection hehe..

kenapa ummi meminatinya?

1) kain yang tidak jarang.

2) labuh.. mmg labuh.. sedap dipakai!!

3) kemasan bahagian muka yang tidak menampakkan anak rambut!! (xyalah pakai anak tudung)

4) ringan tapi kain "jatuh dan terletak" walaupun begitu tidak mudah terangkat bila ditiup angin!

5) lain drp telekung sulam yang biasa.. simple je which represent myself!

ada yang berminat juga ke? hehe gd news!! it comes in various colours!!

haiz.. yg hitam tu pun sungguh menawan! teringin nk beli lagi la huhu.. Ada yg berminat juga ke? huhu no worries i'm going to bring in this unique 1 of the kind prayer veils for u all!!

wait for my next post(s)!! follow fb ummi ye..

Selsema ke?

Sewaktu zaman bujang, everytime kalau demam selsema, mama selalu remind "kakak ni dari kecik kerap selsema, tak mcm abg dgn adik". From pass experience dalam famili mmg saya orang yang kerap berjangkit dgn selsema. Mungkin ia berpunca daripada tidak minum susu ibu seperti adik beradik yang lain waktu kecil jadi ketahanan badan yang tidak kuat. Yang pastinya reminder mama tu ada berbaur kerisauan.

Sekarang bila sudah ada anak sendiri barulah terbuka peluang menyelami perasaan mama waktu tu.. Budak-budak ni kerap selsema, biasalah kalau lepas 2, 3 hari selsema, timbul lah pakej percuma iaitu batuk dan kahak.. Waktu dah dapat full pakej nilah ummi dengan ayah susah nak tidur nyenyak waktu malam, sekejap2 terbatuk, klu tengah2 menyusu dia termuntah balik, kadang2 mengamuk xmau baring langsung..menangis mungkin sebab x selesa bernafas melalui mulut, mgkn sakit kepala.. Kesian tgk budak2.. Lagi kesian tgk nur muhammad yang baru mencecah usia 8 bulan.

Apa yang saya buat ialah:
1) ambil suhu badan, klu ada demam, kasi ubat demam.
2) setiap pagi dan sebelum tidur saya akan suap mereka madu asli, xdalah byk sgt sekadar hujung2 sudu plastik je. Makan madu kalau guna sudu besi akan menghilangkan khasiat /enzim baik dlm madu tersebut, jadi elakkan dari guna sudu besi.
3) bykkn pengambilan air masak terutama air suam selain susu.
4)jaga kebersihan badan, persekitaran terutama sekali mainan yang mereka main disinfactkan, jangan kasi mereka masuk ke dalam mulut.
5) klu tiada keperluan tu jgnlah kasi mereka keluar rumah sgt dlm wktu belum sihat, immune system yang low memberi peluang kpd penyakit lain pula ntuk berjangkit.

Nur muhammad dan nur ameenah jangkit selsema ni pun berpunca kepada kekerapan asyik keluar rumah 2, 3 mgu ni atas urusan visa umminye yang tak siap2 lagi, kesian anak2 ummi kena teman ummi dgn ayah dalam musim tengkujuh ni lepastu kena bercampur dgn mcm2 orang di imigresen. Semoga cepat sembuh anak -anak ummi.

Permata Hatiku.. Rezeki yang tidak ternilai. Ameen

Nur Muhammad baru pandai duduk

Nur Ameenah yang mula xplore

Petang-petang begini seronok betul kalau ajak budak-budak ni main di taman, melihat keletah si kakak yang aktif, tak jemu-jemu turun naik "slide", adik yang baru nak belajar pelbagai benda pun turut sibuk memerhatikan gelagat si kakak, terpusing-pusing kepalanya :)

Sekejap je masa dah berlalu, usia perkahwinan pun nak mencecah 3 tahun. Anak-anak mula membesar, sepanjang perkahwinan ni kami belum lagi menetap di satu tempat, kerap berpindah-randah. Letih juga tapi apakan daya dah tugas suami sebagai pemimpin rumahtangga.

Semenjak menjadi seorang ummi banyak tugas-tugas dan amanah yang perlu dilaksanakan dengan baik. Adat menjadi seorang manusia ada buat kesilapan begitu juga saya kadang-kadang termarah kadang-kadang terpukul. Usia anak-anak yng masih kecil dan dekat-dekat ni memang sedikit meletihkan. Ramai orang yang kata "nk buat macam mana dah rezeki Allah nak beri."

Enc suami pula selalu ingatkan juga anak-anak memang rezeki tapi anak yang soleh solehah rezeki yang tidak ternilai." sama-samalah kita berusaha ke arah tu ye ayah! :)

“Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa zurriyatina qurrata a’ayun, wajaalna lill mutaqiina imama”

Maksudnya: “Ya Tuhan kami berikanlah kepada kami pasangan dan anak-anak (zuriat) yang menjadi penyejuk mata dan jadikanlah kami pemimpin kepada orang yang bertakwa“

Jus Monavie.. apa yang baik perlu dikongsi bersama :)

Antara tugasan, keluarga dan komitmen hidup seharian, adalah sukar untuk menentukan pengambilan makanan harian buah-buahan yang seimbang. Oleh kerana buah-buahan memberikan vitamin dan mineral penting untuk kesihatan anda, maka adalah penting sekiranya anda melengkapkan pemakanan anda buah-buahan.

Sebatian jus Monavie menggabungkan 19 jenis buah-buahan yang sempurna untuk nutrisi seimbang yang diperlukan oleh badan anda. Menawarkan panduan bersinergi 19 buah-buahan yang padat dengan nutrien, gabungan bersatu ini membawa manfaat yang jauh lebih besar berbanding apa yang boleh diperolehi daripada sebiji buah.

Pada hakikatnya, sebatian yang memanfaatkan tubuh ini membawa kapasiti antioksidan beranggaran 13 hidangan buah-buahan dan sayuran biasanya dalam hanya 120ml.

Sewaktu encik suami bertugas di Sarawak, kami diperkenalkan oleh jus monavie oleh kakak ipar saya. Pada awalnya, kami merasakan ia adalah sekadar supplement yang sama seperti supplement lain yang ada di pasaran.

Walaubagaimanapun kami cuba juga untuk memenuhi pengambilan diet seharian, maklumlah duduk di pedalaman Sarawak memang susah nak jumpa kedai buah-buahan macam di Semenanjung, hari-hari makan pisang pun boleh naik jemu! :) sewaktu itu, saya sedang hamil anak kedua, perlulah mengambil banyak supplement memandangkan makanan seharian memang kurang dari segi zatnya.

Alhamdulillah, dengan izin Allah SWT, jus monavie memberi kesan positif kepada saya. Saya tidak berasa letih semasa hamil (saya menyusu badan anak pertama waktu itu), tidak sembelit semasa hamil dan selepas melahirkan. Dan yang paling penting rasa beri yang sedikit masam2 itu memang sedap! hilang rasa loya2! jadi disiplin saya mengambilnya setiap hari sebab sedap! hehe

Enc Suami pun mengesyorkan kepada rakan-rakan kerja dan kesemuanya memberi respon yang positif setelah mencubanya. ada yang sakit-sakit sendi sekian lama akibat usia yang senja dan ada yang sakit sendi disebabkan pernah kemalangan hilang serta merta dengan pegambilan jus buah ini. semuanya atas izin Allah atas apa yang telah kami mencuba dan usaha.

Paling kami sekeluarga bersyukur ialah sepupu kepada suami yang menghidapi penyakit kencing manis dengan perkiraan darah glukos sebanyak 13 turun kepada 3. Sepupu suami telah menjadikan monavie sebagai pengambilan hariannya dan berhenti ubat doktor.

Jus Monavie ada beberapa jenis:-

JENIS PENYAKIT UNTUK MONAVIE ORIGINAL

1. Darah tinggi
2. Kencing manis
3. Asma
4. Strok
5. Kanser
6. Gaut
7. Resdung
8. Ketidakseimbangan hormon

JENIS PENYAKIT UNTUK MONAVIE PULSE

1. Kesihatan Jantung
2. Kolestrol
3. Migrain

JENIS PENYAKIT UNTUK MONAVIE ACTIVE

1. Sakit sendi
2. Masalah urat saraf
3. Mencantikkan kulit
4. Masalah tulang

Harga sebotol tidaklah mahal seperti mana saya pernah mencuba supplement dr syarikat lain, dan bagi orang yang sibuk amat sesuai sekali sebab supplement ni tak perlu amik dua tiga jenis supplement, satu botol sudah mencukupi dan boleh lah tahan untuk sebulan (bajet2 minum :) ). Ada kenalan yang ambil lebih dari sajian yang disyorkan sebab suka rasanya!

Kalau berminat untuk mencuba sebotol bolehlah menghubungi suami saya encik Faizal atau komen ruangan ini.

Bagi yang nak tempah sekotak (4 botol) kami boleh pos ke rumah anda terus!

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Senyuman Si Cilik Contest

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i'm entering a contest to revive back this blog for this year!! yeay!!

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This is a pic of my little angel smiling to the camera :)

Nama Anak: Nur Ameenah Binti Mohd Faizal

Nama Ibu: Siti Hafizah Binte Mohd Tahir

Tarikh Lahir: 08 Oktober 2010

Umur Anak: 6 Bulan

Tag : Puan Ros

Officially 24 on 30th aug 2010

New life n a new place with a totally new environment is refreshing for me!

This year i get to celebrate my birthday in the month of Ramadhan!!

How great is that?!

The month of forgiveness, the month of barakah :)

Hubby is always supporting me at the back.. make sure i'm comfortable with this place..

He cought a lot of walking frogs these days (yes, the frogs can't leap), spraying mosquitoe repellent and kept away the cats from me.

I'm contented..

He bought a blackforest birthday cake specially for me and we broke our fast at our all time favourite Thai-warong.

Currently i'm working in a shop here as a multi-tasker.. Hubby paid my salary with a Tropicana ice cream every single night!! I'm so thankful to Allah for giving me a loving husband who has a will to strive for happiness both dunyah and akhirah. Ramadhan is leaving us soon :'( Be sure to do the very best with all the energy and time we have!

I am happy just being with U

I hate the journey back from work..

Traffic jams... seeing weird people... smelling B.O. from the people all around me..

I get hungry very fast.. infact i'm starving while trying to bear all the obstacles just to meet hubby at home.

Burrp.. burpp.. burpp..

That is what i always get if i do not fill up my stomach when it called for food.. soon it came with a major headaches..

Hubby was rubbing my back.. I felt like vomiting but nothing came out..

MasyAllah how does every mother overcome this phenomenon?

I'm getting dizzy and dizzy.. hubby told me to rest.. I laid down on my bed..

5 minutes after that he asked me to have dinner first in the kitchen.. I know.. I have to eat no matter what happens..

Lo & behold I saw a cute florescent pink cake at the dining table saying "Congratulation on your pregnancy".. He even cooked for me fried rice and finished it off with garnishes on top of it!

felt like crying but I am too happy to cry..

Abang.. u never failed to show your loves towards me.. I love u.. InsyAllah I would not stop trying to be the best wife for u.. Ameen!

Stress, mother of all illnesses

Have u ever heard of quote saying.."a bit of pressure is healthy"?

sometimes a bit of pressure can leads to major stress..

I'm worried for myself and my unborn baby..

stress is unevitable in my working line (teaching)..

yes, i'm talking about major stress..

It's really hard to control my emotion especially when I am dead tired...

I tend to cry.. wails... sulks.. shout.. and even throw things..

Even my husband worried for me if I am in that condition..

and aftr the tantrums that i've done, i will regret it big time..

crying.. crying.. crying..

Astaghfirullah hal azim..

I am seeing it only now (in my pregnancy state)

bcoz i really could not control my fatigue and hunger during this time..

11 hrs of working on saturday really tested my patient in teaching and controlling the classes..

Hopefully there are somene out there willing to share thir experience n how to control the level of stress..

i tell u phrases like:

"it is only on saturday (1 day) which u r working in longer hours compare to me who works 8-5 in 5x per week is not going to work on me"

"u can control stress" don't just say it, teach me..

I tell u even u r working longer hours than me u r sitting down all way, without having a single word to talk..

please understand me.. i have 4 classes on saturday compare to the other days..having more than 30 people to control while teaching them to understand subject which is they have no interest at all.. shouting my throat out..standing all the way.. even they senses my present in front of class they tend to ignore my lesson every 15 minutes.. please don't compare me with people who works in offices..

HELP ME!

New life in my tummy.

I am never this happier in this whole life.

There's a tiny heartbeat inside my tummy!

It really surprised my hubby and I.

Alhamdulillah.. I am officially on my 7th week pregnancy.

I never realised I was pregnant, there were no signs at all. I did not feel nauseous, no vomitting and no headache. Until I had a stomach cramp due to a badminton game with my nephews and niece, I realised there's a tiny life in my womb after the check up at GP clinic in KL :)

Praise to the Almighty (Alhamdulillah).. we were showered with lots of rizq since the beginning of our marriage life.. life has never been this great. I'll be experiencing motherhood in a couple of months.. My hubby has been such a caring and wonderful husband and at times he nags so much because of my "extreme" activities.. (can't help it dear, I always walk like that).

And yesterday hubby was asking me whether we will be able to celebrate this year's eid with our newborn? hehe

InsyAllah our baby will be delivered in this early October.. until the time arrived, we are waiting patiently and preparing for the best in every single things to be a good muslim parents.. InsyAllah.. please do supplicate for our happiness dunyah and akhirah.. ameen!

Living a jovial life~ alhamdulillah

Praise to Almighty~

I'm living a blissful life with my love one..

Hubby has been very supporting, helping me adapting with the changes around me..

I've settle down in a new home nearby a mosque, tiring yet satisfied by the new enviroment.. thanx Abg!

Alhamdulillah my majlis went smoothly, there were a few hiccups behind the scene of the majlis, i guess it's part and parcel of life that we just have to deal with it!

I would like to share this moment to express my gratitude in my blog!

Firstly, thank u papa n mama who has been striving hard for me, planning, saving, forking out their piggy bank, helping out hunting and recruiting manpower for the event! hardworking parents! hopefully i can follow both of your footsteps one day! InsyAllah.

Secondly, to my beloved mak anjang and her family! thanx for sharing your concerns and ideas before and after the event! eventhough u r my aunt but u look like the bride's mother on that day! i love u! thnx anjang! and pak anjang who was being trick by a prankster (cik Mila) via a prank phone call which was on air at WARNA.FM! stressful moment for u! really sorry on behalf of cik Mila!

Next, Special thanx to all my uncles and aunties!! u r my saviors!! working really hard in the kitchen for the saturday meals! my amazing aunt which is Wak Wok, Wak Ani and cik Mina!! thanx for being the iron chefs on my big day! May Allah shower us with infinite happiness and rizq! Amin!

Not forgetting NURAINI MARGONO who act as my shadow for the day (bridesmaid) attending to all my weals n woes (not really that bad isn't it?) superwoman i love u darling! until the end of the time u r still my fav cousin!

Infinite sorry n thanx for fai's family!! thank u for being in such a high spirit coming to Singapore and especially the majlis! thanx for supporting us! and sorry for the long wait during my 2nd session make up which was nearly about 2 hrs! hopefully u had a great time staying in Singapore!

Lastly, thank you to everybody whether u came or not thnx for the supplication, du'a n supports!

Alhamdulillah may our marriage last long until the hoe separates us! Amin

Come! lets celebrate this sunnah with us!

Dear frens, maybe some of u did not received my invitation card by post or by hand..

Terribly sorry, daddy dearest exceeded the quota that was given to him, and risking some of ur cards to his frens which is some of them he did not even know.. very funny of him.

Plz frens.. i'm inviting those who were given the link to have a look of this card virtually.. sorry once again yarhh.. to celebrate with us..

My majlis will be on 20th dec (1 day event), solemnisation at 9:45am, reception will start at 11am until 5 pm.. better get here early.. heard the food is fantabulous!

venue: Blk 641, Pasir ris dr 1, #02-500, Singapore 510641.

Friday the 13, 09

This weekend has been the bussiest so far..

As for tonite, I am making time for this post huhu.

The wedding event process had been hectic,

Imagine myself written down the guests name for all the 600 pcs invitation cards solely..

I thought my eyes were squinted after looking through all the guest lists (yup more than 1 list were given to me) :p

Despite that, I had the chance going out with Yana last friday,
it was a last minute plan and a memorable one hehe (thanx Yana)

The original plan was

1) catch up a movie

2) window shopping around E hub

3) bowling (probably if we have the time)

Instead of that, we did:

1) caught a korean movie (my girlfriend is an agent) hilarious to the max! could'nt stop laughing all the way from the start of the movie ;)

2) play games at zone X E hub branch (interactive drum, racing car n basketball) we too couldn't believed we did all that haha

3) window shopping at E hub

4) window shopping at white sands

5) play games at Zone X white sands branch haha addictive..

6) eat dinner at KFC

7) and of course in between that we did our solat at the fire exits (no muslim prayer hall maa~)

Arrived home at 2150 hrs hehe

tiring~ but lots of fun doing it.our tired faces

maybe next time we can do this get together thing again yarh Yana ;) looking forward for your next sms hehe

My oh my..

A friend once asked me this question:
"How's ur wedding preparation is going on?"

I answered back:
"I'll be having a 1 day event.. after my solemnisation in the morning and my walimah is in the afternoon, i'm not going to have a grand-affair with the walimah.. meaning: no dias, no deejay, no music, no 3 tier wedding cake, no 1 whole day event photographer/videographer, i even do not engaged a bridal service for my outfits.. but still the planning is a headache to me n i'm worried.."

That friend was perplexed and made up a mindset out of it "why do everyone that i've asked always reply that they r having a headache thinking about their preparation? it makes me scared to get married"

Dearest friend.. Personally, I'm not worried about how I'm going to look at the event but i'm rather worried about the well-being of my guests to be, what r they going to eat, will it satisfied their taste buds, will the food be sufficient for 1000 pax, and the most important thing is will my future family feel "welcome" during the event.. haha i'm thinking too much.. but i think it is the most must worried thing when u r organizing an event u see...

Rasulullah pbuh once said: "....those who believes in Allah and the hereafter must honour their guests.."

I'm starting a new life here.. new life means i really wants the best from the start, the doa, prayers from my guests.. nothing can be more beautiful when a person is willingly supplicate for our future happiness.. ok... I am thinking too much..

But it's still a fact that we should consider.. don't u think?

As for the not so big things in the preparation process are listed below huhu..

1. Bridal outfit: my nikah outfit is still "under construction", simple beads n laces which were asked to be sewn on it, will be ongoing their final touches by luvly MIRA latest on 27th nov, 2nd outfit done. But i've not yet searching for tudung that compliments the outfit. I will start hunting for it once i collected my nikah's outfit in late nov. Check out mira's fotopages..

Mr fiance's outfits: he said both of the outfit were done but not yet collected. (I entrusted him for the design).

2. Bridal makeup & accessories : By nana yusuf, wonderful make up artist, who works freelance under RH Bridal. I just love RH's subtle makeup look, very natural, no strong colours.

3. Photographer: No 1 whole day coverage.. just 4 hours tagging in the event, 2 hours during the solemnisation n another 2 more hours outdoor photoshooting at pasir ris beach.. simple n not so tiring, plus the photographer is a lady, so i'm not so shy hehe.. she just gave birth last oct, I'm hoping Finah n her baby are healthy.

4. Fiance's family temporary home in Singapore: I've paid full amount at Costa Sands Resort (pasir ris), book 3 units of chalet which is 2 premier rooms, 1 studio room. Hope can fit all the family members which the exact total numbers of people are still not confirmed yet by Mr Fiance.

5. Bridal room deco: Met up with the couple who own this bussiness, booked their service, paid the deposit, they will be coming to doll up my small, cozy room a week before the event. I'm really glad n fortunate to have their involvement in my event.. popular n busy couple they are..RS Anggun.. as anggun as the couple;)

6. Invitation cards: Done by parents, 1 of my colleagues said it look more like "kad raya" haha.. my parents engaged persona gallery service at angsana plaza johor bahru.

7. Wedding favours(berkat): Parent is in charged for the adults' berkat, i guess they have already confirmed to give out hard-boiled chicken eggs.. that means no more quail eggs or telur pindang "arguments" anymore hehe mummy is done with egg boxes, have not ordered the raw eggs supplier yet.. For the little guest, i'm giving them OREO cookies, bought them already.

8. Home makeover: I bought curtains and decorative-cloth material set to cover above the TV set.. This is to arise the glowing effect of the house hehe.. theme colour is gold and cream, chose by First lady of the house, my mummy.

9. Gifts n gift trays: will use my late grandmummy's trays (i miss her).. for the gifts everything is ready except for sireh dara (mum insisted on having it), wedding cake (will order from secret recipe), decorative flowers (will use fresh flowers: yellow n white orchids, a touch of Singapore hehe and cheap sumore! 80 cents per stem, haha y squander over little things?).. i bought him: a ring, fossil watch, G2000 long-sleeved office shirt with neck-tie, G2000 short sleeved olive shirt, long bussiness pants, belt and wallet set by palmer, bodyshop facial care set and.. that's all.. thinking of buying religious books, something that will be a reminder for him in the future.. hmm "effects of hormones changing in pregnant mothers"?? the responsibilities behind polygamy?? interesting topics haha dunno what to decide..

10. Kadi, wali, 2 witnesses, registering for nikah: confirmed!! Finally! Kadi will be arriving at 9:45am on the 20th dec 2009 , told my makeup artist already, Mr fiance and my camera women is still in the dark, will "light" them up in this couple of days :)

The peak of the event (after the akad nikah) (catering): daddy dearest personally picked dollah botak's catering, popular for their nasi beriyani but mummy n i am not satisfied with their package.. little food but yet expensive.. i understand daddy wants the best for the guest, so mummy and aunties decided to whip up some dishes for saturday nite and order more desserts for sunday.. poor mummy.. Hate that Dollah botak! whoops!! can not do.. must change! i'm starting a new life ahead..

And that's how the preparations had been going.. to organize this event for just 1 day its a headache tho.. Let's just watch and see for the real event to take place..

3 months to go

So many decisions have to be made

where to go?
when to resign?
where to resume my studies?
where to stay?
when to submit my tender?
when to launch blogkbk6?
How to say to Nafisah's parents?

No one knows what has been running through my mind..
leaving all this behind breaks my heart..

People are asking..
people are questioning..

I'm so sorry i just don't know..

I want to be here
I want to stay here

But I have to move on to the future..
towards this undisclosed secret..